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The Pretty City Girl | Indian Travel & Lifestyle Blog

Proudly holding my scholarship worth Rs.5,000 and a certificate

The blog has become too travel-centric ever since I have decided to push it towards the travel genre with glimpses of inspirational stories. This sort of led to tying my hands as I could not freely post anything like I initially did. I absolutely enjoy sharing my life moments and whatever I feel is worth sharing or worth announcing, so this sudden shift in the blog niche is certainly taking a toll on my writing. This post, though narrates one of the proudest moments of my life, is a platform to share what I couldn't in the past few weeks. 

I would love to know what you feel about this shift. I am in two minds as to whether to retain the travel blog title or be a lifestyle blogger that I was before. I was leaning towards the lifestyle niche with a lot of travel-related posts since I am working full-time as a writer and cannot travel as frequently as I used to before getting a job. On the contrary, the Instagram feed I have built is full of wanderlusty pictures and the followers I have recently gained are travellers. 

Anyway, call it an epiphany, but while writing this, I realised that my blog was started because of my passion for writing and the desire for sharing my life stories, so here is hopefully what you waited to hear for: I have finalised on the lifestyle genre with 60% of travel posts and the remaining 40 a concoction of other genres. Also, I'll strictly stick to quality over quantity and in order to achieve this, I might as well take one whole week to construct a post. 



So with that, here's sharing the behind-the-scenes and the actual moment from the day:

Around a week before the prize distribution, I got a call from a lady that muttered something and while she was about to cut the call, I digested what she said and it excited me. I was getting a scholarship for being a university ranker. Due to work and other important events of my life, I had completely forgotten that there were students who had scored better than me. However, when I told it to my best friend from college, she asked if anyone else was invited too. That's when I realised I was not a university ranker but perhaps one of the toppers of my college. I was not disappointed as I know that I study to educate myself and not to compete with anyone. I am someone least interested in studying hard to top. 

Posing on stage while the former president of my college's trust directed that girls don't bow down



I was elated and announced happily to my colleagues. They congratulated me and my happiness had no bound. The next question was: what to wear. I was planning on a wine coloured velvet dress but had no jacket to cover my upper body. Then I thought it was a bad idea but there was one thing that I wanted badly and certainly missed in my closet. The thing being a smart blazer. 

I wanted a blazer so badly that three days before the event, I ordered a striped blazer at 1 o' clock in the night. I was hoping to get it on Friday, i.e., one day before the event, but waited until Saturday. I was so desperate to get it that I was about to go collect it from the logistics centre. However, there was no contact number on the web, but just a vague address. I asked my dad to tag along and we were dressed and near the door when I decided to not waste time in searching the centre since I was already running late. So I stuck to a Vero Moda sheer blouse, snake printed skirt and my college blazer (that I hate but looked surprisingly good this time). I packed my heels and wore my favourite bellies that take inspiration from Gucci's flats. I wore a pretty fuchsia pink lipstick by Focallure and I won't lie but I looked stunning. I was worried about my outfit since it was a big day and I had no outfit planned till the last minute. It is unlikely of me as I am someone who picks outfits days before the event. Anyway, satisfied with how I looked, I left for my college.

I reached pretty late. I was called at 10:30 am but I stepped in the auditorium at around 11:15 am. I noticed that the program had begun but the students were dancing and I thanked God for not being too late. After two dance performances and boring speeches, the prize distribution began. We were called soon and there I was, standing in the queue, proudly, to collect my scholarship.


While on the stage, I attempted to bow down in front of the chief people standing, which kind of made them laugh. One of the persons on the stage directed me that girls don't bow down followed by an, "Are you a Sindhi?" question that ended with a, "No; I'm a Maharashtrian" answer. 

After collecting the scholarship, I met my professors. Next to them, a professor from another field was seated. She took my hand in hers and proudly said how cultured I was and how it's gonna take me far ahead in life. I replied saying it comes from my roots. This was the best moment of the day. So far, the lesson I learnt from my graduation and postgraduation days is

Study with your whole heart and enjoy what you do, and you're sure to make it...
January 21, 2018 No comments
An adorable stray dog. PS This is not Sheru

As I near my house, still feeling a little unsafe as it is 11:00 at night, I feel the emptiness, I try to find Sheru, but he is not around...

I have always loved animals and dogs being my favourite, I often begged my parents for adopting a dog. However, 23 years of my life, and I still don’t have a furry friend wagging his tail when I get home after work, though for about a month, back in my junior college days, my friend had asked me to take care of her puppy Snowy. He was such a sweetheart and now is living an adult life with his partner Maggie and their three puppies. 

That was it. That was the only dog that was a part of my life (and maybe that puny dog — on my Industrial Visit to Udaipur — who came out of nowhere and bit me because he was bored). But then, a stray dog entered our lives...

“Sheru”, named by an old uncle who was living in my building on rent with his family, adopted Sheru. He used to feed him biscuits and pamper him. It was a lovely sight to see the master and his dog playing. Eventually, the uncle and his family moved away from the building. Sheru became miserable and missed his master. He missed the Parle G biscuits and his master’s stern voice that always called him, “Sheru!”

The uncle often visited our building with Sheru’s favourite biscuits and the happiness on their faces was beyond explanation. Then gradually, the uncle stopped coming to the building; I assumed he passed away due to old age because Sheru worsened after that. This was the lowest point in Sheru’s life. 

The residents of the building would shoo Sheru away and be envious of his and the uncle’s bond. Since the uncle was staying on a lease, he didn’t have a much say.

However, things changed and people started accepting Sheru as a society dog. He lived around the building and guarded our gates at night. He started spreading his territory and lived as if he was the king of the area. Such a mighty dog Sheru was! Full of vigour. 

He became a major part of my brother’s life and no wonder my brother cried when Sheru passed away. When my brother returned from London after his studies, he was working hard to invent a product and build his company. When the society pointed fingers at him for not earning money and not following the societal norms, my brother often hit his low. Whenever he came home late at nights, questioning whether he was really a burden and a failure, Sheru always made sure my brother was fine. As the day broke into the night, Sheru became more active and whenever he saw my brother, he always jumped on him while wagging his tail. My brother used to spend a good amount of time with Sheru, sometimes talking to him and sometimes being grateful to have him in his life. When the whole world seemed like his enemies, Sheru was his only friend. 

I had not seen Sheru in a long time but I thought he had disappeared like he sometimes did. But, one night, my brother came home and broke the news: Sheru was no more. He had passed away about a month back. Rumours were he died due to a pill forced into him. My brother’s eyes were moist and I couldn’t digest the fact. This happened around two weeks ago and even today, whenever I walk home, my eyes search for him...

My dear Sheru, I miss you...I wish I could hug you for one last time.
January 14, 2018 No comments
After climbing the mighty Kalavantin Durg for the second time

I had shared my new year's plan to Kalavantin Durg on my blog. The plan was not made at one go and required a ton of changes and some last minute decisions. We were sure of going somewhere to camp yet had not picked the location. Since 31st December is the time when generally every individual is out — the lion's share of them drinking — there's a tight security around. This was the motivation behind picking a mountain over a lake. (I lean towards the lake for the mind-blowing view it brings to the table. Not that the mountains don't have a great view!) The location was not yet chosen, but regardless, four of us were sure to get it going. At 11:00 pm on 31st, besides the 4 people who were in, eight more joined. So now we were 12 people going in two bikes and two cars, out of which, my cousin and I were outcasts, rest all were Anurag's colleagues and it looked like it was their unofficial picnic!
The campsite chosen was Prabalmachi, and then later whoever was interested would climb Prabalgad with us.

Anurag and his colleagues had office till 10:00 pm on 31st December, after which, they went home and got dressed. Anurag, my cousin, and I were ready at 11:00 pm, while others were still at their respective homes. We thought by 12 o' clock we would touch the Shedung Phata, yet when it was 3 minutes to midnight, we were still in Airoli.

Stroking my hair as the Western winds blow fiercely

The three of us left for Panvel and it was decided that we would meet the rest directly at the base village. After an hour, we stopped our bikes since it was five minutes for midnight. We stopped and held up until the point that it was 12 o' clock. It was just me, my cousin, and Anurag, and there, our phones read 00:00! We had entered one more year! We wished and called our families and wondered what an eccentric way to start the new year!

Later, we resumed the journey towards Panvel and shortly, came across one of the two cars. We went together and waited for the second car at the Shedung Phata. After sitting tight for about half-hour, we started walking the trail without them. Shortly, the second car reached and joined us on the trail. I didn't get much time to mingle with the guys from the second car as it was too dark to feed in their faces. All I could hear was their voices and a glimpse of their personalities.

We proceeded with the trail and did not require flashlight as it was a lovely full-moon night. Prabalmachi was at last spotted and we were stunned to discover a large number of tents spread across the entire land! We enjoyed a rest of half-hour and nibbled on whatever these folks had picked from the market. There was bakarwadi, chiwda, Snickers, Bounty, and couple of different snacks that pleased us. The break time was finished, followed by which we had to decide between Prabalgad and Kalavantin Durg.

All smiles: After the photographer cracked a joke

I badly wanted to go to the former fort since I had already been to Kalavantin before. I was annoyed at them, but they had limited time. Since Prabalgad is a simpler yet a long trek, we needed to climb the Kalavantin as it requires a shorter time. Obviously, I wasn't happy!
From a group of 12, only six of us were to climb, remaining folks stayed back and I'm guessing spent the rest of the night drinking.

If ever you've come here, you would relate to me that once we reach the mid-point, i.e., Prabalmachi, we don't have the required willpower for going further. We usually take a break in the village and then start with the trek, due to which we shut our mind and bodies at this point. Same happened to me and knowing how hard Kalavantin is and having no enthusiasm to climb it once more, both my psyche and my body were not willing to coordinate with the rest of the chunk.

However, a change in mood happened as we lost our way while going up. The last time we had come here, the beginning of the trek was totally different than what we saw on the 31st. The lost way energized me and I was back being the excited trekker I am. We climbed and reached the deadliest part from where we need to climb through a crack. We were stunned to discover something unordinary: the crack was filled with enormous rocks! The government, due to the numerous accidents in the past, seemed to have made the trek easier. Though we were disheartened, we climbed anyway.

While descending, snapped on the fort ruins

Then we reached that point which may look simple, but in reality, is dangerous. One minor slip and you could straightforwardly tumble down in the valley. Anyway, we managed to climb up and then after climbing the insanely huge rock, reached the highest point of the Durg. The government (or the trekkers) have put ropes as an arrangement to make the climbing simpler. We were furious at that as well. Only six months back, in July, we had been here, and things seemed to have changed drastically since then.

It was dawn when we reached and we waited up top until sunrise. Another group was spotted, which included a group of young men, I am guessing from the north of India. The sun ascended from behind Prabalgad and we thought we missed it. While we were descending, a big group containing about 25 odd people began climbing the huge rock. They climbed one by one and it was unfair on our part since it meant we had to wait for all of them to climb and then get a chance to descend. No way we were doing that; I was losing my patience already. Anurag and his colleagues had their work at 1 o' clock, so we were concerned about the timing. After a little argument, the trek coordinator requested his group to pause for a while and let us descend since we were only six in number and they were 25. I was guilty to argue with someone on the first dawn of the new year, but nevermind, I'm not carrying bad thoughts with me.

Looking forward to an amazing year...

We descended the big rock, followed by the steps, and then the crack. Though the trek further was simple, it was tricky as the sand was slippery. (To tackle this problem, I have purchased a pair of trekking shoes.) We touched Prabalmachi and then shortly thereafter, landed on the base village. We boarded our vehicles, ate a couple of wadapavs as breakfast, and then began for home. What an incredible beginning to the year...

Watch the vlog:


Read: Kalavantin Durg Trek Travelogue Part 1
January 07, 2018 No comments
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